Source: Early Warning Signs Of Adult Onset Calvinism | The Blazing Center
This is mostly about the neo-reformed fundamentalist.
My son is a Scottish Presbyterian pastor, so, reformed, in the broad sense of the word, but definitely not Calvinistic, thank goodness. After all, Calvin himzelf, with all his good and bad, was not a Calvinist either, thanks be to God.
Similarly, I have dear Reformed friends in Romania and Hungary, and they are clearly decent normal people, much more normal and decent than I am.
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